FACEBOOK also can create HUGE DISTANCE Among CLOSE PEOPLES

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And somehow Facebook contributing more and more than ever before creating distance among close ones; the friends, families, campus peoples, country man, politicians everyone.



Same home; in different room both chatting in facebook while he or she can talk face to face. Some how facebook creating a habit of talking through facebook and helping us forgetting faces by keeping away ourselves to talk Face to Face. And making us more familiar with Profile Pictures and Nick Names like Aguner-Gola ( Piece of Fire) or American-Pola( American Boy). Already we know a lot who knows his friend by the Profile name only and forget the real name



And these days eventually, it becoming more disastrous as through the facebook comment or delivering his anger, happiness so in detail that it creates panic, mistrust, creates unnecessary situation before that situation happens in real. ( Sometimes also prevent )



Facebook have given us the chance to be more expressed, to become more vocal , to become democratic and to make others more accountable. That is good . And it eliminates distance, create lots of connectivity but it can NEVER REPLACE the importance of talking face to face; knowing the real ground actually by visiting the place or knowing the situation directly. We can comment about a campus from the outside but those who live there, works there ; they know the reality better than others.



Peoples all around the world will talk about our Floods, Cyclone but thanks to Allah Rabbul Al amin , there are peoples from outside who really worked here, know the reality and know we are more than what many of them thinks WE ARE. When someone from Canada tell that , Oh , you are from Bangladesh, there is lots of flood there, that time I don’t think so you like it. And feel sorry that they don’t know much about the reality.





You can say many things about marriage. Can read or write JOKES on that. But those who are married they only know what is that, what it means to life, why it should be there and what are the commitments and issues those have to face.



So commenting in FACEBOOK is just a trigger , or to rising some questions or to know about the post-situation or to do pre-discussion or post-discussion after understanding the real situation first from the SPOT, from the peoples who are directly involved , from the peoples who are physically involved . Only from them you can know the TRUTH. Others can stay there to understand and keep them within the minimum decency level.



We don’t love or like or want to discuss so we have so many things pending in the Supreme Court.



Like one batch student hit one of their senior batch. Then the senior batch student write on facebook that a junior batch student hit a senior batch student.



It can be true and also may not be. There can be many situations

1. That two persons may had personal clashes among themselves but intentionally they have involved their batch to hide their misdeeds. Because if they not involve batches , both of them may be punished. And it is not easy for a varsity authority to punish all!!!!!!

2. May be that Junior don’t know that he is his senior in the campus ( 3000 to 10 Thousand students in the campus , is it easy to know who are senior or who are junior); and if he know that he is senior ;he or she may not act like that. Although that act is not acceptable by any means.

3. That senior may want to teach the new junior batch some lesson as those juniors just have admitted there and still not that much united and this is the the best time to earn some respect by hitting !!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! But actually by doing this he or she , unite the JUNIORS more than ever before.



These all situations can be avoided if we can talk; if we can negotiate.

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1. They can talk together about the issue , and tell to each other that we should not bring our clashes in the campus as it is only between us and we should not bring unnecessary peoples into this. It is not fair to others. And it will just prolong the event without RESULT.

2. Without knowing who is who , we should not start anything. And best way is Fresher’s reception where Seniors will give their well wishes and tell their identity to the new comers. Gap can be reduced by this a lot.

3. In the campus or after age 16-18 almost all are same powerful ( at least physically together). And if you provoke you are just destroying both parties PEACE. Whatever happens , both have to continue in the campus and complete their studies. So what is the benefit of destroying you own varsity future ENGINEERS.??!!



Let us talk face to face if both parties in the same place. Have the chance to meet each other before posting anything in the Facebook. If there is any issue , where peoples from outside campus need to talk, FACEBOOK is one of the BEST Place to do that.



Our problem is we are not getting good examples from our own top POLITICIANS.

If Driver is not good , he or she can never take us to our destination. NEVER.

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