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নির্বাচিত পোস্ট | লগইন | রেজিস্ট্রেশন করুন | রিফ্রেস |
আমি খুবই ভাল, সেইসাথে চরম ভদ্র এবং গোছালো একটা ছেলে।\nকি বিশ্বাস হইল বিশ্বাস না হইলে ঠিকই ধরছেন, আমি পুরাই\nউল্টা!!!\nনিজের সম্পর্কে কিছু কথা যদি বলতেই হয় তাহলে প্রথমেই\nযে কথাটি বলব তা হলো- আমি নিতান্তই মধ্যবিত্ত পরিবারের\nএকটি ছেলে। ছোটবেলা থেকেই অনেক আদর-আল্হাদে বড়\nহয়েছি এবং এখনও হচ্ছি।বাবা-মা আমার কাছ থেকে অনেক\nকিছু আশা করে।যদিও তাদের আশা আমি পূরন করতে পারব\nকিনা জানিনা।
It is a virtue to ignore the negative behavior of others to protect your mind. You should have a forgiving nature without any grudges and resentments. But there is a difference between goodness and cowardice. Being positive does not mean that you become victim of those who have ill feelings about you.
This attitude may affect you and your family in the long run. It is your duty to take decisions about what kind of relations you want to keep while dealing with people who purposely try to play games with you. You have to watch the behavior of others in your contacts and take bold and sometimes tough decisions to protect your mind.
Association has a great impact on our personality. In an effort to make people comfortable, we sometimes ignore their onslaughts and keep associating with them for life. This can be damaging. Maintaining a positive mindset should be our top priority.
Though it is good not to get into arguments but you can not afford to put at risk your own character. Relationships should help and not hurt you. Be aware of the people you surround yourself with.
You need to take life seriously. Remember, you have only one life. It is your responsibility to keep yourself mentally healthy and to guard your character.
You have to understand and value the importance of time which is a treasure. And, it can not be left at the mercy of negative people who spread mood infections.
If you are associating with people who have serious drawbacks in their personalities, take a bold decision to say no to these relationships. Lacking courage to do so makes you mentally weak and you end up making poor life decisions for which you have to repent for life.
You must protect your mind.
২৬ শে ডিসেম্বর, ২০১৫ বিকাল ৩:৫৩
সাজ্জাদ মণি বলেছেন: Spend your time on those that like you unconditionally, Don't waste it on those that only like you when the conditions are right for them...
©somewhere in net ltd.
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২৭ শে আগস্ট, ২০১৫ সকাল ১১:৪৮
জাকারিয়া জামান তানভীর বলেছেন: Well said. As we are sole guardian of our souls we better take good care of it.