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I'm a girl. A pure bold muslim Bangladeshi born. I am certainly entitled to live my life my way. No one has the authority over me to make me forgo my rights.
The key thing that affected my life drastically was being born as a female child in Bangladesh. Not to mention, my nation is filled up with male dominated stuck ups, so living and growing up in such environment for a young girl like me was like inhaling toxic.
I can't project my voice.
I can't make decisions.
Neither can't question nor can't answer.
I am just a piece of meat with no where to be seen. On the top of that the newly terrorism issue kicked in hard! Now I can't at all go anywhere without putting my hijab on. The hijab in this case works as a shield to save me from possible attacks by Bangladeshi Islamic extremists. How come this be a purpose to wear the hijab? Why can't I go outside in my own choice of attire? Democratic Bangladesh right? Nice joke.
Ladies and gentlemen let me tell you people some dirty reality of my beloved country Bangladesh now. Since Iived there so I know to what extent this filthyness is all about. The nasty mixture of islamic extremists and male dominance has greatly lashed my way of leading life. I can't speak what I want, I can't dress what I like, I can't hangout with guys, I cannot say to a homosexual folk that "I've got your back", I can't support securalism being a muslim. Why? Because I am scared and I don't want to die. I don't want a bullet in my head like Malala Yousufzai, I don't want to lose my life like Qandil Baloch for choosing a modeling career. I want to live but on my own terms.
If I wear hijab, I want to wear it from my heart but not as a form of protection from extremist'd attacks. I want to speak my heart out and loud and I want everybody to hear that. I want to freely roam around with my guy friends as well. I want to openly back the homosexuals in Bangladesh cause they too have the right to live as much as we do.
Hatred for me is emerging. Hateful feedbacks followed by threatening remarks are all piling up. I am the new under cover athiest for them now. I am the very new Taslima Nasreen in town. I am like the newest person to be rotting in hell fire. Why is being secular feels like jumping off the roof in Bangladesh? Who else has got my back now?
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+১/-০২| ০৩ রা সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ দুপুর ১:৫৪
করুণাধারা বলেছেন: Off course u are different from rest of.us-we like to think, laugh, speak and write in bangLA in a bangla blog.
You are getting immersed in some complexity- none but a psychiatrist could help you get out of the mess. Please go to a good psychiatrist. Good luck.
৩| ০৪ ঠা সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ রাত ৩:১৫
বাসারাট বলেছেন: So you're telling me to consult a doc for having secular thinking? This came out nice. Secondly, hijab is actually an issue here and not sure if your read my other blogs or not but I don't wear hijab because of my father. Regarding the homosexuals, let people as a they like. Don't impose your idology over anyone, let that be even your religion you.
৪| ০৪ ঠা সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ রাত ৩:৩১
Robin Anwar বলেছেন: Basrat ur message is vry mch clear. Everyone should have there free wil do anything regardless of their religion, nationality, sexuality etc. Dere wil b people to hate u. Just like dat dere wil b people to luv u. Bangladeshi mentality wil not understand u. Best of luck. Thanks.
৫| ০৪ ঠা সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ রাত ৩:৩৫
Solaiman Munshi বলেছেন: Sick bastard lady supporting gay community। You are disgrace for Bangladesh and Islam। You shold be stone to death।
৬| ০৪ ঠা সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ সকাল ৭:৩৫
এ আর ১৫ বলেছেন: Khimar" is an Arabic word that means, cover, any cover, a curtain is a Khimar, a dress is a Khimar, a table cloth that covers the top of a table is a Khimar, a blanket can be used as a Khimar..etc. The word KHAMRA used for intoxicant in Arabic has the same root with Khimar, because both covers, the Khimar covers (a window, a body, a table . . . etc.) while KHAMRA covers the state of mind. Most of ...the translators, obviously influenced by Hadith (fabrications) translate the word as VEIL and thus mislead most people to believe that this verse is advocating the covering of the head.
In 24:31 God is asking the women to use their cover (khimar)( being a dress, a coat, a shawl, a shirt, a blouse, a tie, a scarf . . . etc.) to cover their bosoms, not their heads or their hairs. If God so willed to order the women to cover their heads or their hair, nothing would have prevented Him from doing so. God does not run out of words. God does not forget. God did not order the women to cover their heads or their hair.
God does not wait for a Scholar to put the correct words for Him!
The Arabic word for CHEST, GAYB is in the verse (24:31), but the Arabic words for HEAD, (RAAS) or HAIR, (SHAAR) are NOT in the verse. The commandment in the verse is clear - COVER YOUR CHEST OR BOSOMS, but also the fabrication of the scholars and most of the translators is clear by claiming- cover your head or hair.
The last part of the verse (24:31) translates as, "They shall not strike their feet when they walk in order to shake and reveal certain details of their bodies." The details of the body can be revealed or not revealed by the dress you wear, not by your head cover.
Notice also the expression in 24:31,
[Quran 24:31] They shall not reveal any parts of their bodies, except that which is necessary.
This expression may sound vague to many because they have not understood the mercy of God. Again God here used this very general term to give us the freedom to decide according to our own circumstances the definition of "What is necessary".
It is not up to a scholar or to any particular person to define this term. God wants to leave it personal for every woman and no one can take it away from her. Women who follow the basic rule number one i.e. righteousness, will have no problem making the right decision to reveal only which is necessary.
৭| ০৮ ই সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ রাত ১১:৩৯
বাশার রাহমান বলেছেন: stupid woman spread bulshit. you have fate like taslima nasrin
৮| ০৯ ই সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ রাত ১:৪৪
Mahbub Sarwar Hasani বলেছেন: MAY ALLAH SAVE US FROM ULTRA MODERNIZATION
৯| ০৯ ই সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ ভোর ৪:৫৪
ফোরহাড হামেড বলেছেন: Even if your heart doesn't want to wear the hijab you have wear it you know why? Because Allah said so. If you are a true muslima , you can't reject Allahs order.
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০৩ রা সেপ্টেম্বর, ২০১৬ দুপুর ১২:৫৫
তাজবীর আহােমদ খান বলেছেন: Sorry dat couldn't run through the end of ur writing, red half past and since den I'm laughing.No offense to u but mam,I have a very simple think to ask??actually to whom u r blaming?? The country dat gave identity to u,the religion dat shows da way of life,da male Issue where due to ur father,today ur writing dis,the hijab issue which is not mandatory in our country, and finally the best part........ The homosexual issue.mam,forget about da society and forget about rest of all.just remember one thing,nature has its own rule.so be clear regarding ur concept first.thank u.